The Supreme Happiness

How’s this quote for something that is so amazingly true? "The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved." - Victor Hugo

One of the other things that popped up in my whip around with friends about relationship breakers was this: I often feel my partner doesn’t love me. (See previous blog about Menticide)

So what the heck do you do when your partner doesn’t love you anymore or love you as much as you love them anymore?

I guess one of the first reactions is to try harder and beat yourself up over all the things you think you have done wrong; do all the things (ie. change yourself) you think will make the person love you – again/more?

And whilst you are doing all these things you will probably become more and more miserable/broken and the person you love will probably just carry on the same old way and may even move out despite all your hard work.

Unrequited love hurts a lot. If you feel rejected it is because you have been rejected.

If the person you love doesn’t love you, there is not much you can do about it. So you make a plan; you need to move on…..

Get a new life with someone who will love you how you deserve to be loved.